CHOSEN CHICK: Tough (Christian) Love

CHOSEN CHICK: Tough (Christian) Love

Growing up, I was such a pushover. It’s not that I was scared of people. I just was never really taught how to say no. I went through middle school, high school, college and my early 20s before I was comfortable enough to say no to my associates and those I lov

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CHOSEN CHICK: Think Like A Saint, Act Like A Lady

CHOSEN CHICK: Think Like A Saint, Act Like A Lady

Every woman wants the secret to getting a good man, who pays bills, has good credit, is strong, sexy and powerful. A man who is well respected in public and a compassionate king at home.

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WATCH: New President of Philippines Says ‘God Can Save the Philippines’

WATCH: New President of Philippines Says ‘God Can Save the Philippines’

An ecumenical prayer by a Catholic bishop, Protestants, and a Muslim opened the first State-of-the-Nation address of the newly elected Philippine President Benigno Aquino lll.

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God’s Chosen Chick: Relying on Me, Myself & I

God’s Chosen Chick: Relying on Me, Myself & I

The song Me Myself & I by Beyonce used to be a mantra of mine. As I was coming out of my silly days as a college student and being more picky with the men I shared my time with, I heard this song and wrapped my mind around the strong idea that my newfound standards in men might just leave me single for life. In the song, Beyonce somberly sings, “I know that I will never disappoint myself,” and

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Does Going To Church Make You A Christian?

Does Going To Church Make You A Christian?

When I’m looking over the statistics for the people who visit this blog, I can also see the search terms that bring people to my site. Many of them are interesting. One that seems to keep popping is, “Do I have to go to church to be saved,” or “can I be a Christian and not go to church” or some kind of variation of that. I thought I would touch on this today and try to answer this question

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I’m Saved, Now What!

I’m Saved, Now What!

What happens to a lot of people is that they get saved, and don’t know what to do afterward. You might experience some great euphoria, and you might not “feel” anything. So how do you begin to acquire this abundant life that Christians talk so much about?

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Sex In The City (In The Bible)

Sex In The City (In The Bible)

The Bible features many virtuous and strong women. But it also features tales of passion, indiscretion, dram and redemption. They might not have been as well dressed as Samantha and them, but their stories are just as fascinating! Here are some interesting lessons from some not so notable women of the Bible, that might teach you more than just the correct way to pronounce designer’s names.

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Fighting Defensiveness: How far will you get being a bad girl?

Fighting Defensiveness: How far will you get being a bad girl?

How far will you get being a bad girl?

Everybody is hating on you. Even your mom. You feel like nobody is on your side and everyone is telling you that you’re wrong. Nothing is going right for you. Instead of considering that maybe people are right and that you are not doing things the proper way, you get mad and defensive.

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Married Boyfriends Is The New Black

Married Boyfriends Is The New Black

The latest Hollywood accessory on the arms of many gorgeous, Black and successful celebrities ladies is not a new bag from Chanel or a gorgeous and gaudy new bracelet. Many ladies are sporting other women’s men. Married men, to be exact.

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Blessing Our Haters

Blessing Our Haters

In a few days, I have to go to an event, and there’s a girl that’s going to be there that I don’t like. Yes, I am a Christian and I dislike…

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