Proverbs 31:30 (New King James Version)
Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing,
But a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised.
Gentlemen, I know in a society where women put everything on display, even things they shouldn’t, it can be difficult to walk out your faith in the area of dating. I have listened to enough of you tell me that keeping your thoughts pure is right next to impossible when so many women deliberately or ignorantly walk around with their chichees and butt on display for the world to see. Yes, that word is “chichees.” I spelled it phonetically so that there would be no confusion. God created you a sexual being. You have more sexual thoughts in a month than some women have in a year. That is just how your Creator wired you. And it is a good thing. But the same God who made you, knows your heart as well. And let me tell you, he would not create a desire in you if he didn’t have a plan already in place to fulfill it.
As a mother of a son, who is entering puberty, I will tell you the same thing I tell him, and the same thing I have warned my single brothers who have come to me for advice on dating and pursuing a wife. WATCH HER CHARACTER. See if who she professes to be matches who she says she is. Don’t involve yourself with a woman of poor character. I don’t care if she is “fine as hell!” Because that’s probably where she comes from. Don’t think you can “dabble” and walk away. You will get “got.” To the degree that you don’t is just God’s mercy in action.
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